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Learning on the Road: Audiobooks

Reading aloud is crazy important to us. I’ve written about it before and continue to harp on it to whoever will listen.

For us, reading aloud takes place all over. At night as the kids fall asleep, on Wednesday afternoons while they bathe after forest school and under the trees on park days. But it also happens in the car.

Audiobooks

We use a variety of apps available through our area library systems. Our favorite is Hoopla but we also use Axis 360, Libby and RBdigital. We make a reading list at the beginning of the yeae and enjoy documenting what we’re read on our playroom door. We sometimes go on rabbit trails off the list, but it grounds us. I also try to find good narrators who change their voice and speak clearly to reduce the cognitive demand on the kids. They tire easily listening to fast talkers who don’t have a clear differentiation between characters!

Radio Shows

We also have a growing list of radio shows we enjoy. One thing that really engages the kids are shows that utilize “Foley art” – the adding of realistic ambient background noises like shoes squeaking, doors closing, birds, wind and more. Right now we primarily listen to Adventures in Odyssey and GT and the Halo Express. I’ve been slowly building a collection of old radio shows, so suggestions welcome!

Learning in the go isn’t always ideal, but it doesn’t have to be boring!

Tara

Prep & Hover

We are watching Pip closely, as he has extensive airway swelling from surgery. But I’m going to be honest, there is only so many cartoons I can take before I lose my mind! So, a walk was in order.

I loaded up our handy dandy wagon and gave him a popsicle for the road. We took Chief for a walk around our block, then dropped him off at home before heading over to the library for some DVDs. A mini-rainstorm meant we stayed longer than planned – which let me take advantage of one of my favorite “gifts” from our library. 300 credit points for printing each month!

Some quick prints and I am getting a head start on next school year while Pip watches more cartoons. Win-win!
Tara

Mr. Borderline

Pip has so many strengths. His heart is huge. He loves others fiercely, cries when his friends cry and loves with every part of his being. He’s my thinker, always working on a problem or maze in his head. He’s my watcher, noticing needs before most.

He is also my Mr. Borderline…when it comes to his health. His growth slowed, he woke up tired, complained of severe stomach pains and more. But none of the symptoms were enough to give us a clear direction.

The past year has been a constant string of doctors and tests. First there was the worry that scar tissue had grown over his incision from pyloric stenosis. An endoscopy showed us a gorgeous scar with no blockage. Blood tests showed everything was fine with one odd liver result that righted itself. Heart checks showed a beautiful ticker. When you pull into Children’s and your six year old asks “what are they doing to me today?”… Your heart shatters into a million pieces.

I self referred us to the sleep clinic for a sleep test. With Pip waking up tired, snoring and even holding his breath at times.. This had to be it! Right? Something was off. Pip loved the sleep study and thought it was a ton of fun!

Imagine my surprise when I received a quick nurse call saying “Normal!” Now, my training as a Speech-Language Pathologist tells me that wasn’t possible. Perhaps he didn’t have apnea, but his sleep breathing isn’t normal! So, I again self referred myself. This time to the ENT department. That is when we started getting answers.

Our ENT looked at the sleep study results and confirmed my suspicions. While Pip didn’t have long enough “events” to qualify as apnea, his oxygen levels throughout the night looked like an epic Rollercoaster. He scoped Pip right there in the office and found his airway over 80% blocked by his adenoids. He immediately qualified for surgery. The ENT noted that Pip’s tonsils looked normal, but that he had concerns based on symptoms. I signed permission for the tonsils to be taken only if absolutely needed.

Last Thursday Pip and I went down to Children’s (about an hour away) to meet with one of their Child Life Specialists, Bree. Bree took Pip through what to expect on his surgery day – from where to sign in, a peek at his special “pajamas”, a tour of the surgery floor and even exploring the surgical suite.

He could touch anything he wanted, ask any questions, exploring a social story about surgery day and even try out the breathing masks. Pip loved it and Miss Bree promised to stop by and see him on surgery day so he’d have a familiar face.

Fast-forward to surgery day and Pip walked into the hospital with excitement and confidence. Among the many members of his team to visit, Miss Bree made sure to stop in and check that he was comfortable and ready. Would you believe Pip giggled himself to sleep inside his breathing mask?!

The surgery was incredibly quick and sure enough – his tonsils WERE hiding a secret. What we saw upon oral examination was only 10% of their actually size. 90% was hiding deep into his neck. The pressure was so significant that it was actually changing their shape. They had to go. While adenoids are a 2-3 day recovery, tonsils take us to at least 10 days. Oy!

Now, it wasn’t all sunshine and roses. I was so nervous and teary handing my baby off. Then there was the wake up. We aren’t strangers to anesthesia with Pip’s previous tests and surgeries. However, they weren’t expecting Pip to wake up quite so quick – it was only 10 minutes from stopping the anesthesia to awake. He woke while they brought us back and I heard the scared pain cries from the hallway. I quickly scooped him into my arms and rocked him back to sleep. However, after the initial panic and pain, he was relaxed and asleep.

We took him home after a long time in recovery and are having a smooth healing process as we stay on top of the pain meds.

Thank you for all the prayers and please keep them coming!

Tara

Disconnected… Kinda

I deleted Facebook off my phone shortly after our vacation started. Anyone who knows me, knows this is a big deal. Not because I particularly love Facebook, but because a bunch of the programs I run work because of Facebook. So deleting it also meant letting go of it all for a short bit of time. Now I did ask friends to let me know if I was needed in those groups, but so far so good!

I also tucked my cell phone into the diaper bag (or the husband’s pocket). I can’t hear the alerts and only specific ones are sent to my smart watch. This was a necessary step for me to truly relax and enjoy a vacation with my kids. It’s amazing what one notices when their phone isn’t buzzing in their pocket constantly. And trust me when I say my phone buzzes All. Day. Long. Such as…

How much Pip observes when he doesn’t seem to be paying attention. Even when it appears he’s lost in his imagination, he still notices people and needs around him in the “real world” and comments on them to me.

How Liv is realizing people comment on her looks, and how it drives her crazy. She wants people to ask her about her age, her favorite color and all the things she knows. And she becomes very frustrated when too many people call her cute.

How they are finally turning the corner on car trips. Instead of needing a dividing line to stop wars, the giggles and songs from the back seat are now almost deafening.

How really really blue the ocean is here. The adorable white terns bobbing in the air when we were out on our whale-less whale watching tour. Olivia, the sea turtle, enjoying the waves splashing into her while she slept in the cove we visited. And so many rainbows.

Now, I’m not saying I’d miss all of this if I had my phone buzzing in my pocket. But I would miss some of it. And to me, some is just too much. Liv turns 3 in a few days, Pip just turned 6. And it’s already going by much too fast.

So, fellow mama, tuck the cell phone away for a while today. Notice what you hadn’t noticed before. And love on those kiddos big and small.

The Weather Outside is… Delightful?

It’s been quite the week of weather here in Colorado. It started in single digits and broke 60°F yesterday. We definitely are experiencing all the seasons this week!

To kick off the New Year, we’ve been paying particular attention to temperature. We enjoy looking over the day’s temperature changes using this site. Then we mark it down! Pip and I are each tracking the weather in our own ways.

I found this chart for Pip. Every night, before I go to bed, I place a line at the day’s high. In the morning, when he wakes up, he colors it in. It has started a lot of really fun conversations and learning experiences!

I have, ambitiously, started a weather blanket. So far I am really enjoying it! I may not make it all 365 days, but right now it’s a great way to unwind at the end of each day. And Pip loves checking in to see what color has been added!
Tara

Porch Swing Views: Bikes and Struggles

Today’s temperature has climbed to a gorgeous 64°F. As we left the co-working space we love, I promised the kids a picnic on the lawn and bike riding. I texted O on the way home to let him know the plan and he sweetly pulled out Pip’s bike.

Only to discover both tires were flat. Ug.

Thankfully we live ridiculously close to the library, where there is a bike fix-it station! We drove the two minutes up there to wait in quite the line for our turn. Apparently everyone had plans to enjoy the beautiful weather!

It struck me as interesting that some people would accuse us of not “doing” school today. But, in addition to music time at our co-working space, my kids were learning all day long. And pumping up the tires was just another learning experience. I showed them the parts of the bike. They helped me located the stem on each tire. We studied each tire to find the recommended PSI and then watched the dial as we pumping in the air to make sure we didn’t over inflate!

We returned home and I worked on some personal projects on the swing while the kids traded off between bikes. That is when the big lesson came. You see, Pip wants to learn to ride a two wheeler. And for any of us who can remember that long ago, that is sometimes a tough lesson. Today he became extremely frustrated with his seemingly minimal progress in this endeavor. He came up, rather defeated, to the porch where I was seated. We discussed frustration. What it feels like, what our brain might tell us and some options. He could stop for today. And that would be just fine. Or he could continue practicing. And that would be fine too. But only he could make the decision.

Hear me loud and clear. Every bone in my mama body wanted to rescue him. I wanted to swoop in, save the day, change the plan and bring back rainbows and butterflies for this sweet boy.

But, as much as my heart wanted that, my brain knew better.

I know, from research and my career, that struggle is important. Crazy important. Struggle teaches really important things. Like confidence, problem solving, “smartS” (IQ), emotional IQ and grit. (read more here)

So, I reminded him of his options. I gave him words for his feelings. And I let him know he was accepted with either decision. But I didn’t save him. I didn’t tell him what to do. I kept my bum firmly planted on that porch swing.

Now, I would love to tell you he ran back to his bike, hopped on and rode off into the sunset. But this is the real world folks. He didn’t master the two-wheeler today. He might not master it tomorrow. But he did choose to get back on that bike and try a few more times. And my heart, silently, bust wide open.

Just my view from the front porch swing.

Tara

Gameschool: Outfoxed

Word has spread in the family – a perfect gift for us is always a game!

Children learn so many fantastic things through games. Beyond just turn taking, patience and problem solving. You can target history, geography, math, critical thinking and more! Gameschooling itself it a huge movement in the homeschool community for good reason.

One gift the kids received for Christmas (thanks Nana!) was Outfoxed. Now, we are huge Gamewright fans, so we knew this one was going to be awesome.

Getting through the directions was a tad cumbersome, I’m not going to lie. But our little family of four figured it out and had a blast. Even though we lost!

Yep, “we” lost. It’s a fantastic cooperative game where it is players against the game. I love these games for my clients who a struggle with competition and/or anxiety. And cooperative games make it easy for the 2 year old to play with the 5 year old in our home! While Pip played mostly independently whole exercising his problem solving skills, Liv enjoyed rolling and learning how to move around the board, even if she didn’t understand the critical thinking aspects yet!

The game reminds us of Clue mixed with Guess Who, but in a simplified cooperative way! One of the foxes has committed a crime and you have to figure out which one is guilty! You are given pictures of all your suspects and clues hidden around the board. All the clue relate to what the suspects are wearing. It’s really quite ingenious.

Our group loss was clearly on Pip’s mind. When I woke up, I walked into the family room. Pip had the whole game set up, ready and waiting for our rematch against the foxes! Haha!

Round two was much more successful! We weren’t Outfoxed in round two!
Tara

Forest School 2017: Day 1

I had learned about forest school via world wide web. I’d show videos to my husband and told him how much I wish we had one near us. It was pure chance that I found our local forest school!

A mom had posted on a local homeschooling group about the activities she was enrolled in and asked what others were doing this year. One activity was forest school! I couldn’t click that link fast enough! Thankfully, my children have some awesome grandparents that encourage their homeschooling and help support their extra-curriculars ❤️

Day one of forest school came and O was actually able to attend with us! Pip was so excited and had so many questions. His number one question? “Will there be mud mommy?”

After a week of daily rain, he definitely had mud! He was so excited! His excitement was clearly contagious, because soon he had company….

This little girl had her hands covered in mud and loved it!

Soon, the son of our leader came running through the mud barefoot. Pip’s mouth dropped open. He looked at me as if to ask “can I do that?!” With just a bit of encouragement from his leader (whose bare feet you can see) and me…

Soon the leader invited the children to join her in a group for a science experiment. She brought out canteens and poured some contents into each child’s cup. She asked them to hypothesize, wonder and notice. They discussed color, temperature, smell, flavor… And enjoyed sitting quietly drinking tea together on their first day of Forest School!

Soon they moved on to storytime, where they learned about “being present” and what that means in a group. And it physically involved a move as well. Up onto a boulder!

We moved our entire class to another location within the park to continue exploring, trying new games, and learning safety. We discussed what to do if they see a snake, finding support when they want to climb high and respecting physical boundaries for our play space. Liv loved this new space and boldly followed the big kids around exploring.

Pip watched some of the other boys ascend the large boulder. He gave it an attempt, but left discouraged. He soon because engaged in a game of “1-2-3-Where are you?” but continually looked back to the boulder and watched the more experienced boys climb. A short while later he ran over to his leader and called out “Miss Erin! Climbing!” She smiled, and called back “climb on!” (which meant she was ready to spot him). The smile on his face when he made it to the top made my mama heart explode. He stayed up there for 20+ minutes!

A quick lesson on how to find a good throwing rock helped transition the boys to the closing, which involved throwing said rocks over a ledge and telling everyone their favorite part of school.

He was sad to go, but completely exhausted! We can’t wait to return to the beautiful views and the adventure of exploring!

❤️ Tara

The first scare… 

Somehow both of our children have been able to give us a good scare before they were even a month old. 
Confession: I doubted I had any “mommy sense” when Liam was first born. His delivery was emotionally difficult and left me feeling like I was “behind” most other moms. You know, the ones who got to see their baby sooner than 2.5 hours after delivery. 

But every internal alarm went off when  things started to unravel for Liam. I’m so grateful for a pediatrician who believed in “mommy sense” and followed up… 

For those of you who have never heard this before…  Here is Liam’s story

But the view… 

This past weekend was absolutely beautiful. The weather, the sunshine. *happy sigh* I could see the snow capped mountains for miles. I constantly remind myself never to take this view for granted. 

Right now we are going through every single corner of our house and cleaning it out. We are physically putting a hand on everything we own and deciding if it should stay in our house or go. If it’s a “go”, out the door with it (which takes 2 votes). If yes (even just 1 vote) then we decide where exactly it goes. A place for every thing and every thing in its place. The main floor is a few feet of playroom floor space away from being done! 

After quite a few days in the house going through cabinets and cupboards, I had penciled in 2 hours all to me on Saturday. O took Pip and Liv to go pick us up some lunch. I, on the other hand, laced up my shoes and decided to set some sights on some personal records. 

And I nailed it. Longest run at home, some seriously consistent splits and a best time. Only missed my goal by 2 minutes. I’ll blame stop lights and call it a win! 

The Princess Half Marathon is just a few weeks away…  I had doubts as to my abilities back in January. But I know I’ve got the Half in the bag this time and can’t wait!

This next week I’m pulling out my sewing machine and working on my costume…. I’ll post here when I’m done! 

❤️ Tara